DECORATING LAINE: The Bridal Shower

The Bridal Shower is always such a special time in the lives of the bride to be, her family, and her guests.  Below are just a few tips to add a touch of elegance to your event.   

The Umbrella:  This garden fresh umbrella was embellished with silk tulips and clusters of silk hydrangeas.  The ribbons are pinstriped pink & white, as well as a pale off white, in alternating lengths.  Green silk leaves are attached to the ends, each topped with a rosebud and crystal "rain drops".   After all, for every Shower you need an umbrella!  

Gifts & Bows:  I think one of the best parts of any shower is being able to view the colorful display of gifts that people have taken that extra special step to decorate. These gifts have three dimensional bows made from different layers of ribbons.  The lower layer is white tulle that was gathered into a double sided fan underneath; the next layer is made with  3" wide shiny silk wired ribbon;  the top ribbon is a large store bought pull bow.  Classic style.

    
Simply put:  Cupcakes are in!  We took  a variety of flavors and arranged them as visual eye-candy that had a message in sync with the event.  How clever was that?

Champagne Punch flowing out of lighted fountains and served in stemware is as retro as it gets when you add this vintage touch to your shower.  Your guests will love the extra "punch" that this touch of elegance adds to your event. 

The Tablescape :  Your tables should reflect
the mood or theme you want to project 
so be creative
and have fun with it!

The Desserts:  Tradition has it that homemade pastries & cookies are to be
placed on a tray at each table.  Be generous and wow your guests.  *Place out extra take home bags

Lamb's Ear and Pee Gee Hydrangeas are hand picked from the garden on the morning of the shower and add a personal touch that says "I care".

   The Food: 
Be sure to give guests the ultimate pleasant experience
they will remember 
by serving food that is of the freshest quality
 and presented with style.



The Venue:  Remember one thing:  This particular day, as well as your wedding day, is all about YOU!  Your guests will come to share this time with you, bearing gifts for your future happiness. Wherever you decide to host your shower, be it at home, in a park, in a restaurant, or in a lovely historic setting, remember to thouroughly enjoy the entire process as you go along!  Happy planning!  
I hope you have enjoyed some of the tips to help you have the shower of your dreams.
Best wishes from
Cranberry Laine

Copyright  April 26, 2012
All pictures and text in this post are the property of CranberryLaine's

MEMORY LAINE: Vintage Dresses of the 50's/60's....an everyday lifestyle

Being a baby boomer, I vividly remember my mom, my sisters, and I wearing these types of cinch waist dresses for our special occasions in the late 50's/early 60''s.  Life wasn't really the perfect Ozzie & Harriett/June Cleaver/Donna Reed prototype that we watched daily on our TV shows, but let me tell you younger ones, it was close, so very close.  Feminine dresses were simply "in", and pretty much whenever and wherever.  The casual pure cotton styles were the norm for going grocery shopping,  to weekly beauty appointments, (oh yes, they were weekly back then if you could afford it), to church, to a movie, or to a school PTA meeting.        

   We wore the fancier fabrics to bridal and baby showers, mother daughter sorority luncheons, club meetings, graduations, communions and baptisms,  school dances, social occasions, etc. I am happy to see that the romanticism of the 50's & 60's eras is alive and these fashions are currently trending again!   Although I am not the teeny-bopping youth I once was, I will embrace the retro styles as they emerge and I will proudly wear them with a few more pounds added to my frame.  I plan on visiting my local vintage fashion shops as I'm sure I will find a few of these treasures again.   Join me darling, won't you?  We can do Tea after....








I smile when I think that I never, and I mean never, saw my Grandmothers in anything but a dress. That's just they way they lived. If they weren't going out for the day then a floral "housecoat" would do just fine. But never pants. Actually I will take that back. There was one winter day in the 60's when I was a teenager and my Grandma took the bus over to our house. We were all sitting in the kitchen when she walked through the door. She had on a wool coat, gloves & boots, her kerchief, her pocket book on her arm, and a pair of sweat pants sticking out from under her dress. I kid you not, the room became dead silent. She looked at all of us - we looked at her and everyone burst out laughing. She laughed herself so silly, and it was a moment I will never forget.  I hope today you've enjoyed your trip with me down Memory Laine! 

GARDENING LAINE: Osmocote - The only fertilizer I use! Find out my secret....

An annual plant:   "Dragon's Wing Begonia"....  Go from this... 

  .....to this!!   and here's the secret.....(oh how I love a good mystery....) 

Fertilizing Perennials, Annuals, Trees or Shrubs

For me there is only one word in my fertilizing vocabulary:   OSMOCOTE   
Simply put, I think Osmocote is the best fertilizer on the market.  I have been  gardening for over thirty years now and I generally use nothing else.  Osmocote is a granular fertilizer that is worked into the soil during the initial planting process, either in the ground or in a pot.  I also use it for established perennials by broadcasting around the plant base whenever I feel the plant needs a little "help" from their friend. (me, of course) 

When planting most new specimens, (excluding evergreens) I put some Osmocote on the bottom layer of soil in the pot or ground hole.  I place the plant into position and begin to add more soil in layers of about 4", incorporating tablespoons of Osmocote as I go.  If planting in a pot remember to leave at leave 3" between soil/ pot rim for watering purposes.  If planting in the ground I follow the instructions for depth required.  Firm the soil around the finished pot and add 1 tablespoon of Osmocote for good measure!

I cannot tell you how important this product is for the infrastructure of your plant.  The root system will be stronger than ever and your plant will grow strong and upright.  Years ago my friend Carol (another gardener) shared with me the benefits of using this miracle fertilizer.   Her plants did not bend over or fall -they were so upright that I could not get over it.  I would not leave without finding out exactly what was used on them.  When I was told to try Osmocote I could not wait to get out to purchase it and try it on my gardens and trees.  

My plants were always nice and healthy, or so I thought.  The first season I used it I saw a marked difference in the appearance of the plants.  The leaf colors were vibrant; the flowers larger and long lasting and the stems straight.   The most noticeable  difference was in the overall size of the plant.  (as in the above photo samples).  Annuals definitely tripled in size by the end of the first  season.  Perennials benefited greatly over each season/year in the ground.  They were not "long and leggy" as some plants can get but grew consistently true to their species.   In my garden club I learned a gardening rule of thumb and it is so true: First year sleeping, Second year creeping, Third year leaping.  Believe me, Osmocote will help make your plants leap for joy! 

In an average planting season in upstate New York, which is from May through November, I probably go through about the equivalent of about 10 gallons.  Yes, it is a pretty expensive product to buy but, once again, when I garden it is for the sheer joy of reaping the fruits of my labor.  Isn't that what all we gardeners live for?   Why not have the healthiest plants, trees, or shrubs you can right from the get go?  I’m telling you – get some Osmocote today.     Your plants will love you for it!

Your friendly tip from
Gardening Laine

GARDENING LAINE: Scaveola - The sun loving annual and my secret to keeping it healthy

Although we were teased all through the month of March with record breaking glorious weather in upstate New York, today is a cool but sunny Spring day here.  It definitely puts me in the mood to start thinking of  the annuals that I will be planting next month into large pots throughout my gardens and walkways.  Although I mostly garden in perennials, I do plant some annuals as well, and Scaveola is one of my absolute "have to haves".   There are 8 stone columns in the front of my house and the picture above is of  one of  the thriving Scaveola that I plant to add the pop of color I need.  I am never sure of what color to call this plant.  At first glance it's a vibrant cobalt blue.  Look more closely and you see periwinkle and then the subtle puff of powder blue.  Lavender and purple emerge while gazing.  Scaveola love sun - lots of it and will not do well in partial shade.   They need to be watered in very well but also need good drainage whether you plant them in a pot or in the ground.   My potting rule of thumb is that the container should be 4 times bigger than the plant that's going into it.  That's if you want to see it produce to it's fullest capacity.  Yes, you can plant up only 1 pot size if you prefer....but why limit your plant's capability for the season?  Even in year round warm weather, a plant will get rootbound in a few months if not given enough room for the roots to grow.  Therefore I plan on much larger pots for transplanting at the season's start.  When potting these up, I first add large stones to the bottom of my pot which always has - I repeat - always has a bunch of drainage holes.  I never trust just "one" hole as it can get clogged, and so when buying my pots (which usually only come with one punch out for a hole), I know that I will be drilling a few more in them.  It takes a few more minutes to get your drill out and do it, but is so worth the effort in the long run.  Small stones may clog the holes so use stones that are proportionately larger than the hole.  Every gardener loves to enjoy the fruits of their labor, right?  If you don't take the time in the beginning to nuture your plant by using good products and caring for them properly, then don't be surprised when they don't do so well.  I hear it all the time:  "But I watered them when I planted them"  Watering well "just at planting time"  (be it in a pot or in the ground) and then ignoring them for weeks at a time will always result in a dead plant  much sooner than you'd like.  So here's what I use to keep my plants happy:   Moisture Control Miracle Grow potting soil.  I start to fill the pot about 1/3 full, placing the soil on top of the rocks and packing down.  I set the plant in the pot so that the plant's original dirt level is going to set 2 - 3" below the rim of the pot.  (you need this space to hold water in the pot)  Then comes the secret ingredient:  Osmocote.  (I will be blogging specifically on Osmocote very soon so keep watching)   Osmocote is a granular fertilizer that I simply don't garden without...ever!  I you want your plants grow and thrive, it pays to spend money on the good stuff.   I generously add it to my potting mix  as I build layers around the plant.  Pack the soil moderately and water the plant in well after potting.  I water well  3 days a week unless it's raining and gloomy out, then it's 2 days.  However, when the weather gets in the 80's & 90's and sunny, I water every day.  That's just what a gardener does!  So, Sun - Water - Drainage - Osmocote, makes for a very happy plant, not only a Scavelola!  Believe me, you will be impressed at the way the plant will triple in size over the growing season.  I have people constantly ask me what I use on my plants and today I am sharing my success with you.  Note:  I had one plant last year that I lost in a large pot.  I believe I may have skipped watering it well for a few days during a 90 degree week.  That cost me my plant, and ultimately made the front yard "umbalanced".  Be very careful and take care of your plants.  I hope you have enjoyed my very first blog!     Greetings from

"Gardening Laine"